
Judith Butler leads a discussion on gender and sexual precarity, on how some of us, based on our performativity and performative acts, are in lack of protection from the government and authorities, how we are exposed to violence, cruelty or being discredited. She examines performativity of a gender - that is given at birth, and compares it with performative acts - actions that we conduct opposed to what society expects us to do based on our external looks. I would like to examine the same patterns in Kazakh families among women, who are expected to behave in a specific way or to follow explicit performative acts in order to be accepted in their societal environment. Traditional Kazakh families are divided into three different classes, which are called “ zhuz ”: senior, middle and junior. Based on their ancestry, women are required to marry a man from the same zhuz. If a woman chooses a man from another class or another race, she will become a disgrace to her family and will nev...